There will be times in life when you must choose between things that are important to us. We might not know why we are put in such positions, because choosing somthing above the other may have different turns in our lives, that we cannot change after, but still we must choose. And then, we ask ourself: how can I make this decision? how will I know is the right one?
What may look to us important, to others can be nothing, we already know that, but still we go to our friends and family to seek for advice and council. Why? Because we believe in them, we trust them, and we think that by knowing us, they will help us to choose the right thing for us. Well, we are wrong!
Friends and family are important, and to me, to be honest, they are the most important in my life, but unfortunately for us, they cannot decide for us, they cannot help us much, because every single person in this world thinks differently from us, and what's important to us, may not be as important to them. They cannot say do this, or do that, because what we feel towards a thing, they may not feel the same, they see it differently, and their advise will be from their own whishes, dreams or experience. That doesn't mean they don't care about you, or they don't want for you to have the best things in the world, no. That just means, that in the end, the hard part of choosing its just on your own shoulders. It may seem like a bad thing, but actually its the thing that will make you more happy for what you do, because this means you will have to take full responsability for the consequences of your actions, of your decisions. And in the end, this kind of situations makes us the people we want to be.
We may not always choose right, we may regret our decisions, but we surely learn something, we surely change, and next time we will know that we must choose with our hearts, because no matter what, the truth about onw self lays in our hearts!
What may look to us important, to others can be nothing, we already know that, but still we go to our friends and family to seek for advice and council. Why? Because we believe in them, we trust them, and we think that by knowing us, they will help us to choose the right thing for us. Well, we are wrong!
Friends and family are important, and to me, to be honest, they are the most important in my life, but unfortunately for us, they cannot decide for us, they cannot help us much, because every single person in this world thinks differently from us, and what's important to us, may not be as important to them. They cannot say do this, or do that, because what we feel towards a thing, they may not feel the same, they see it differently, and their advise will be from their own whishes, dreams or experience. That doesn't mean they don't care about you, or they don't want for you to have the best things in the world, no. That just means, that in the end, the hard part of choosing its just on your own shoulders. It may seem like a bad thing, but actually its the thing that will make you more happy for what you do, because this means you will have to take full responsability for the consequences of your actions, of your decisions. And in the end, this kind of situations makes us the people we want to be.We may not always choose right, we may regret our decisions, but we surely learn something, we surely change, and next time we will know that we must choose with our hearts, because no matter what, the truth about onw self lays in our hearts!
